Honoring Heroes

I was recently invited to write a piece for The Freedom Group based out of Charlotte as an introduction to their Peace Vigil planned for tomorrow. I am including it here for those who might like to attend the vigil in Charlotte.

On April 21, 2005, under the cover of darkness the Bush administration completed a secret mission. No, it wasn't a flight by Bush, Rice or Rumsfeld into dangerous territory, it was the unloading of Steven Sirko's body from the cargo hold of a commercial aircraft. Luggage, animals and other cargo were all prioritized over the remains of a young man who had given his life for his country in a war that should have never been. Under the cover of darkness, Steven Sirko's body was returned to his mother.

On Saturday August 12 at 6:00pm, the Freedom Group will hold a candlelight peace vigil to shed light on the human cost of the U.S. War in Iraq. Summer Lipford, Steven Sirko's mother will be there to speak about her personal battle to get answers from the government about what actually happened to her son.

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Summer Lipford is joining a growing number of military families to speak out against the Bush administration. Cindy Sheehan may be the most well-known of the Gold Star Moms speaking out against the war, but others are joining their ranks seeking answers and trying to find some peace with the knowledge that their child died in what now appears to be an unjustifiable war of aggression.

In January 2006, Paul Schroeder shared these thoughts in a piece written for The Washington Post:

At times like this, people say, "He died a hero." I know this is meant with great sincerity. We appreciate the many condolences we have received and how helpful they have been. But when heard repeatedly, the phrases "he died a hero" or "he died a patriot" or "he died for his country" rub raw.

"People think that if they say that, somehow it makes it okay that he died," our daughter, Amanda, has said. "He was a hero before he died, not just because he went to Iraq. I was proud of him before, and being a patriot doesn't make his death okay. I'm glad he got so much respect at his funeral, but that didn't make it okay either."

The men and women who don a uniform and stand up for our country are heroes and they are heroes long before they reach a battlefield.

Being anti-war doesn't mean that we can't understand the need for a strong military. However, supporting the military doesn't mean we have to believe that war is the best solution to the world's problems. We can support our troops without wanting to leave them in harm's way. Those who say it harms troop morale when we urge our government to bring them home don't seem to understand that war is not an exercise in self-esteem building.

War is real. It is dangerous and real sons and daughters, husbands, wives, fathers and mothers are dying in Iraq. If our mission is not accomplished it isn't because they weren't brave enough or didn't shoot straight enough or weren't willing to die often enough. If we leave Iraq without accomplishing the administration's mission, it is because the Bush administration wanted the wrong war, in the wrong country for all the wrong reasons. To make the war more palatable they sent fewer troops than military experts estimated it would take for success and to make it more affordable they sent our troops into harms way without the necessary equipment to protect them.

Opposition to the war in Iraq was swift and sure for some. For others it has taken time to grow. Now that polls show a majority of the country thinks it is time to begin withdrawing troops, more voices are chiming in to be heard. In his letter, Paul Schroeder says the voices need to be louder in order to truly honor those who have died.

But their deaths will not be in vain if Americans stop hiding behind flag-draped hero masks and stop whispering their opposition to this war. Until then, the lives of other sons, daughters, husbands, wives, fathers and mothers may be wasted as well.

I grew up during the Vietnam War. I remember the war protests. Like many of my friends, I wore a copper bracelet with the name of a POW on it. I remember television coverage of men coming home and running into the arms of their mothers and wives and grabbing their children, some being embraced for the first time. There were no cameras trained on the families of those men who were returned home in boxes or who were missing in action and never came home. Those families were momentarily moved aside so that we could forget about the horrors of war and experience the joy of the waiting families and their heroes as they returned home.

It is time to truly honor Casey Sheehan, Steven Sirko and Auggie Schroeder by bringing home their fellow heroes. It is time to honor them by speaking out in a loud voice with a sure heart and a clear purpose. It is time to support those remaining in Iraq by bringing them home. Let's honor those who gave their lives and lets honor their families by keeping their fellow soldiers from greater harm.

Don't let the Bush administration hide under the shroud of darkness any longer. Make them face the tragic human losses that have been felt on both sides for a war with no clearly defined purpose or clear path for success. Acknowledge the human cost of this war as vocally as you protest the billions of dollars wasted on it. Acknowledge the loss of an estimated 40,000 Iraqi lives and accept their value.

When John Kerry returned from Vietnam, he felt the scorn of fellow soldiers when he spoke out against the war and testified before Congress. In reading a transcript of the words Kerry spoke that day it's surprising how much of what he says holds true for the war in Iraq.

We rationalized destroying villages in order to save them. We saw America lose her sense of morality as she accepted very coolly a My Lai and refused to give up the image of American soldiers who hand out chocolate bars and chewing gum.

There are those today who refuse to give up the image of the American Soldier as liberator being greeted with flowers by jubilant Iraqi citizens. They cling to this image because it is less painful than admitting the war is wrong.

In his speech John Kerry asked,

How do you ask a man to be the last man to die in Vietnam?

I have an even harder question for you. How do you ask an 18-year-old boy to be the last man to die in Iraq?

If you pray, please pray for our troops and pray for Iraqi citizens. If you do not pray, please send them hope.

Let's bring them home, now.


Please join us for a candlelight vigil at Freedom Park. Veterans and military families will speak out about the human cost of the war in Iraq and the personal effect it has had on their families. The Freedom Group will be collecting phone cards to send to servicemen and women. Contributions will also be accepted with checks made payable to Any Soldier.com or Civicworldwide.com.

Our speakers will include:

  • Nick Kepf, Veteran, Operation Desert Storm
  • Sam Foster, Vietnam Veteran,"Veterans for Peace"
  • John Autry, US Navy Veteran
  • Lee Little, Veteran,Operation Desert Storm
  • Ed Zohn, Union County Democrat
  • Jim Starowicz, Vietnam Veteran,"Veterans for Peace"
  • Mary Keenan, Peace & Justice advocate
  • Summer Lipford, son Steven Sirko died in Iraq April 2005 "‘Gold Star Families Speak Out"’, "Military Families Speak Out"
  • Sri Rajagopalan, Iraq Veteran
  • David Dixon, Peace activist
  • Ahmed Daniels, Vietnam-era resister
  • Christy Snow & Renee' Leboa, Co-Ministers -Center For Positive Living

Who: Veterans and Military Families in Charlotte gather for candlelight vigil

Where: Freedom Park, 1900 East Boulevard, Charlotte (near the band shell)

When: Saturday, August 12, 2006, 6:00PM


Beautifully written, SD

Thank you.

This war will be a blight on our country and on the world for generations to come.

Powerful Message SD

And it's about time people got upset about this! They ask our precious National treasures, our nations young men and women, to fight their fight. But don't want to recognize the consequences of their actions!

Shame on Bush, Shame on the Republican Party, Shame on all Americans who believe their vile propaganda!

Today would have been

Steven Sirko's 22nd birthday. I think this is a very fitting way to honor him.

Thank you, Southern Dem.

Bush Economy

Wonderful diary

Thanks Southern Dem, this was so well done & touching. It just breaks my heart to see what these families are going through.
We must work to bring them home, NOW!

I still think

your stuff is great. I put this message on your blog. This is very personal to me. My son-in-law is an Army officer and he has been deployed four times since 9/11. Please keep up your good work and GO LARRY!!


Good lord.

Good luck and prayers to you and your son.

Jesus Swept ticked me off. Too short. I loved the characters and then POOF it was over.

Thanks everyone....

It was actually very difficult to write and I'm still angry. I usually try to stay away from war related pieces unless they're just a screed against Bush. Anything else is simply too painful.

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Very well said.

Very well said. It is difficult to write when you are angry, but you did a fine job -- your passion comes through, and so do your logical thoughts. Why is it so hard to get across the idea that we support the troops, but not the war? The repugs act as if the two are mutually exclusive -- all or nothing.

Kos rec, please?

Thought I would give it a shot. DailyKos diary

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Little help please, SD

is leaving a comment or two the same as a recommend? I have never figured out how else to recommend on kos, it's not like here where we just click the recommend button.

If your registered..

..you can recommend on Dkos if you are logged in using the button in the right column. I believe ratings are a hybrid of recommends, comments, timing and reads.

Thanks Greg,

Never noticed that, went there and recommended!

Wonderfully written...

I hope you don't mind. I've referenced your article here on the OneAmerica blog and asked they come to BlueNC to read it in its entirety.

Stan Bozarth

Thank you, Stan

Of course, I don't mind. They're always welcome here.

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Beautifully Written

You were very eloquent and passionate in this writing. I am a long time supporter of the troops but never have been a supporter of this war. I believe as Gen Wesley Clark that while our military is an option they should be used as our last option. I also believe the best support to give our troops is to remove them from harm's way.


Welcome Calilady

I'm sorta new here, are you an old timer and a long time lurker or are you new? Hope to see you visit and leave more comments!

Thank you Calilady

I'm pretty tired of the Republicans telling me how to support our troops.

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